Episodes
Sunday May 06, 2018
Building Your Child's TEAM - S5E7
Sunday May 06, 2018
Sunday May 06, 2018
Helping kids from hard places involves more folks than just parents. There are teachers and professionals, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and dear friends gathered around our families. If they're not gathered around, we need to bring them in to the fold, because it's important our kids have a TEAM helping them heal and reach their potential. Chris talks with Ryan and Kayla about the best way to do this.
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Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy
Friday Apr 27, 2018
Expectations - S5E6
Friday Apr 27, 2018
Friday Apr 27, 2018
There are so many places where our unmet expectations get in the way of connection with our kids. Chris, Ryan, and Kayla are joined again by Allison Highton, and they talk about these various expectations, which begin even before our kids come home.
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Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy
Tuesday Apr 17, 2018
What To Do When You Get Home From a Conference? - S5E5
Tuesday Apr 17, 2018
Tuesday Apr 17, 2018
Even if you haven't been to an adoption and foster care conference, such as Empowered to Connect or CAFO Summit, you may have attended a seminar or one-day class that had you coming out of it thinking, "Yes! I can do this! I'm going to change the way I parent my kids!" But the excitement wears off. Motivation falters. And what are we left with?
In light of the 2018 Empowered to Connect Conference happening April 13-15, and CAFO Summit coming up in May, Chris, Ryan, and Kayla tackle these issues. We all want to start with correcting behaviors, but we'll have long-term success with connection first. Connection is the foundation for everything else to click together. The team walks through how that might look for parents, offering practical examples to get started.
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Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
Produced by Dallas Stacy
Friday Apr 06, 2018
Schooling Options - S5E4
Friday Apr 06, 2018
Friday Apr 06, 2018
Chris, Ryan, and Kayla are joined by Allison Highton. Allison, along with her husband Russ, is an Empowered to Connect parent trainer in New Jersey. Allison works with Miriam's Heart, a non-profit adoption ministry that radically supports families who take action on behalf of adoptive and foster children.
The group discusses various schooling options for our kids from hard places, from public to private to homeschooling.
Is your adopted or foster child in public school? You should know what an IEP is, and be your kid's biggest advocate. They also talk about being flexible on the home front after kids get home from school.
Back to School: Teachers are Important
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Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
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Friday Mar 30, 2018
Make Play a Part of Every Day - S5E3
Friday Mar 30, 2018
Friday Mar 30, 2018
The team discusses how playing with our kids is a great way to connect with them. Play is fun and disarming and makes us enjoy our kids as much as it makes them enjoy us. Play is the language of children but is sadly something most of us are no longer fluent in.
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Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
Produced by Dallas Stacy
Tuesday Mar 13, 2018
Sassy Talk - S5E2
Tuesday Mar 13, 2018
Tuesday Mar 13, 2018
Chris is joined once again by Kayla and Ryan North to talk about something that can be quite irritating to all parents: sassy talk. They discuss various ways to counteract it and get our kids to a place where they can talk respectfully not just to parents, but others as well.
Baby Owl Lost Her Whoo - Cindy Lee
The Frequency and Intensity of Behavior Dictates the Frequency and Intensity of Response - S3E2
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Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
Produced by Dallas Stacy
Saturday Feb 24, 2018
Mealtime Struggles - S5E1
Saturday Feb 24, 2018
Saturday Feb 24, 2018
Ryan and Kayla join Chris to talk about mealtime struggles. The team discusses the typical concerns parents of adopted and foster kids see at meals: food sensory issues; eating too much; before-meal snacking; not wanting to eat what is being served, and actually getting kids to the table! They talk about setting expectations and using transitions, as well as other things that have worked in their families.
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Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
Produced by Dallas Stacy
Friday Dec 29, 2017
Trauma and the Brain - S4E10
Friday Dec 29, 2017
Friday Dec 29, 2017
Chris talks with Ryan and Kayla about how the brain processes trauma, and how this affects our kids' relationships with us and the world at large.
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Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
Produced by Dallas Stacy
Wednesday Dec 13, 2017
Simplifying Christmas - S4E9
Wednesday Dec 13, 2017
Wednesday Dec 13, 2017
With all of the craziness that comes this time of year, Chris, Ryan, and Kayla talk about some ways families can simplify holiday time to reduce stress on moms, dads, and the kids. The team discusses everything from gifts to traditions, holiday travel, extended family, and more.
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Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
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Wednesday Dec 06, 2017
Dedicating Time to Our Kids - S4E8
Wednesday Dec 06, 2017
Wednesday Dec 06, 2017
Chris, Ryan, and Kayla respond to a lister email asking about one-on-one/play time with their children. The team discusses things they have tried in the past and how creating an environment of felt safety changes the way their kids interact with them.
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Intro/Outro Music: "Home" by Moses Uvere
Engineered and Produced by Dallas Stacy